By Sherry Bollers-Dixon
EARLIER this year, Barbel Mohr’s ‘The Cosmic Ordering Service’ was propelled into the best-sellers list after British TV presenter, Noel Edmonds claimed it changed his life.   Her book encouraged readers to realise their dreams by listing six ambitions, then asking the universe to deliver them. Now, as an accompaniment to her cosmic guide, the German author has written ‘The Cosmic Ordering Wish Book’ which will provide the readers with daily inspiration throughout the coming year and gives guidelines for placing successful wishes. To give wishes an extra boost, Barbel has marked days in the diary section of the book, showing the dates on which she will be tuning in with people to help their dreams come true.

“I discovered wishing and ordering for myself about 15 years ago,” explains Barbel, who is a household name in her home country. “Before then, I never believed in anything like that, and so had prevented myself from having access to this wonderful world of possibilities and opportunities. I also realised the strength of expressing wishes together. The success rate is much higher when others can wish with you.”

The first step to making a wish come true is to write it down. “By doing this, the wish will become reinforced,” writes Barbel. “That alone will lend it power and strength.” Here, she outlines further tips for making wishes and ensuring they come true.

Start small. Convince yourself on the basis of the first good result that wishing is a reliable method. Nothing is as successful as success itself, because it nurtures further success. Choose the right words. Always express a wish in the present, never in the future tense. For instance, say “I am rich,” rather than “I will be rich,” otherwise, we create a condition of wanting instead of being.

Deal with things to come in a positive way.  By preparing ourselves in hopeful expectation, we create the right vibrations for ourselves and practically draw the event into our life. Banish fear. Fear attracts exactly those events we want to prevent, so don’t say: “I don’t want to be ill.” Instead, focus energy on its positive counterpart, and say: “I am healthy.” This order is simple and clear, and we are thinking of our health and not of an illness.

Write down the wish. This manifests our intentions and form now on it is real, unshakeable, clear, and unequivocal.

Express the wish clearly, precisely, and briefly. The more succinctly the wish is expressed, the more reliably the order will be carried out. If you express yourself in a short and precise way, you are forced to get to the core of your request.

Be grateful. With gratitude we increase the good things, because we are beginning to look at the aspects in our life that are going well. Whatever you focus on, you dedicate energy to.

Say thank you. The energy in praying and wishing is very similar. In both cases we appeal to a higher force and ask for a solution. In both cases, we should confirm it with an … Amen! Or a … Thank you!

Trust instead of doubt. Often people say: “It won’t happen anyway,” as soon as they have expressed a wish. But this, though, says, “It won’t work.” If you don’t believe in success, you won’t be successful. For that reason, you have to trust fully that your wish will be granted.

Be discreet. Talking about your wishes weakens them. The energy evaporates by talking about what you want incessantly, and we quickly call forth people who are envious and doubtful and make space for their beliefs and convictions.

Forget the wish. In forgetting, we also forget to doubt and thereby involuntarily reverse our order to the cosmos. Also, by forgetting we prove how much we trust because we’re so certain the wish will come true that we stop thinking about it. That way, we are open to accepting the wish into our life - no matter how dismal our present situation may be.

Be open to coincidences - you never know how the wish will be delivered. Nearly all wishes are granted in a way we never thought possible. We cannot possibly know the ways of the cosmos.

Trust your intuition. Sometimes, we are guided in a gentle way to where we will find the desired goal. Just remain alert and attentive, once the wish has been sent, and you will receive all the necessary information.

Find out your truly important wishes. These are the ones that are good for you. Often, we express a wish only because other people have, or chase an ideal that has nothing to do with our lives.

Be ready for change. Before sending a wish, be absolutely clear about what you really need in your life, as every successful wish will change your circumstances profoundly.

Make a wish date with yourself

Every month, put an appointment with yourself in your diary. With a bit of organisation, two hours a month will be manageable. Even if you have five children and a busy career, you can manage that.

Start the date with a little exercise in self-love in front of the mirror. First, reflect on the topics of the month and note down where you are at the moment and what direction to take next. Reflect on the here and now, and love yourself in spite of it - or because of it. Imagine your desired goal as vividly as possible. How would it feel? How would you be feeling? Write this down and watch how things develop. End your date with yourself by giving yourself a little treat - such as playing your favourite music, having a long soak in the bath, or taking a nice hot shower.